When we love someone, we are often ready to eye wash or ignore some so-called deal breakers in our partners but some quirks can be such red flags that they simply must be acknowledged and talked about. It may mean working together on a compromise or accepting the fact that he is not meant for you and moving on!
Here are 7 Warning Signs That You Should Look Out For
1. He is a Liar
Relationships that aren’t based on trust cannot survive rocky trials. Trusting him is essential for the quality and longevity of your relationship. If you feel like that you cannot trust your guy or if you have reasons that make him untrustworthy, then girls you need to address this ASAP.
2. He Tries To Control You
If your boyfriend tries to lay down the list of things you can and cannot do or where you can go and who you can associate with, limiting your world to allow in only what is important to him then girls it’s time to bid him Au Revoir! Believe it or not but he would never be able to change his controlling behavior and I am sure you wouldn’t want to be trapped with someone like that forever.
3. He Is Commitment Phobic
When your boyfriend is commitment-phobic, he might tend to avoid defining your relationship. You start to have a feeling that things between you guys aren’t exactly the way you want them to be and maybe you are giving just a little bit more than him or he isn’t ready to make space for you in his life. If that’s the case, then it’s time to wake up and think about where things between you two might end!
4. He Is Disrespectful
Guys can put on a good front in the beginning of a relationship. However, if he is disrespectful you will find out eventually and it will be a big turn off in your relationship. There are several signs that you can look for, to know whether he is faking it or if he is genuine. Those signs include observing “How he talks with waiters in a restaurant when you both go on a date?” or “How he speaks to his Parents?”
5. He Tries To Change You
Often pushing someone to grow in ways that benefit them and make them a better person is the best part that relationships can offer but if you feel that he treats you more of a project than a partner, then girls it is a huge red flag. If he cannot accept you for who you are, then he wasn’t meant for you. End of story!
6. He Asks For Your Phone, E-mail and Facebook Password!
His insecurities and the need to check all your social networking accounts can become really suffocating for you. Checking your messages,facebook and e-mails in peace without someone breathing over you is a basic right! You are 100% entitled to your privacy and a little bit of your alone time, provided you are 100% loyal to him.
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7. He Is Abusive
Lastly but most importantly, any form of abuse whether it is emotional, verbal and certainly physical is just not a red flag but a sign telling you to get out of the relationship immediately and then never look back. You all deserve someone who truly loves you and doesn’t believe that being abusive with you showcases him as a strong alpha male.
So Girls, these red flags are signs to help you process what you really might be feeling. If any of the above warning signs got you thinking, then it is better that you sit down with him and have a chat about it. After all, most problems can be solved just by discussing. 🙂